I now have a 2nd grader and a child in kindergarten. They were both so excited to go to school today, and I've been so busy getting them ready that I haven't had time to mourn. Of course we got pictures in front of the house.....
Then Alyssa snapped this shot of Matthew and I just before walking him down his hall (she did a nice job, didn't she?)
I had to lug our huge art easel yesterday to remind new kinder parents to go to the library for the first day of school "Tears and Cheers" breakfast. This year, I am one of three Kinder Liasons, which means as the "experienced" one, I am the contact for other kinder parents to help them adjust to school and to answer questions if they have them.
It's kinda fun to be a contact person like that, and I'm working with another mom, Neisha, whom her daugther was in Tyler's kinder and 1st grade class together. Now Matthew and one of her twins are in kinder together. I should get a picture of her to go here.....
Anyway, we hosted the breakfast in the library for parents, and I brought the easel as a reminder. I was fine dropping Matthew off, but once I got in the library, one of my neighbors, Janice, rushed over to me and gave me a huge hug and was sobbing. She dropped off her only child in kindergarten and was obviously having a difficult time. When someone cries on my shoulder, I cry, and I was reminded of sending off my child. I mostly tried to console her, but my eyes were partially stinging for myself. Did I do everything I needed to with Matthew before he started? Is he ready for the world?
Alyssa and I left and an hour later I dropped her off with my friend Emily so I could go visit Matthew alone for lunch. She usually goes with me, but I wanted to focus on him AND not want him to be sad with her leaving.
He was having a grand ole time. The best part about visiting my kids at lunch is talking to the OTHER kids in their class. I get such a different and more complete perspective on their day by hearing from others. These lunch visits are valuable mothering tools for me. He had no inclination to come home with me. I even checked on a few of my other friends kids and reassured them that they were doing well.
I went to get Alyssa from my friend and after chatting a while, took her back to the school with me to lunch with Tyler. I knew he'd be ok with her there. Meeting his new classmates was fun, I know a handful of them from previous years. He shared with me a few details of the day and was very happy...which makes me happy:) AJ and I left, came home, and played babies.
And made cookies for "the brothers" They both said they had a great day and shared stories of coloring projects, class discussions, and Matthew said his teacher read a book called Miss Bindergarten Gets Ready for Kindergarten. He said it was pretty funny. I love my boys and I only hope they have many more fun days. With 4 different trips to the school...I am very tired at the end of the day.

7 comments:
Yay! I'm so glad they had a great day. Look at those smiles!
What a fun first day! I can't wait to be able to have lunch with my kiddos! They don't let us bring little siblings to the school. Isn't that lame?!
What cute kids you have. I love how involved you are with their school.
Your kids are so well adjusted! I'm sure Matthew is going to have a great Kindergarten experience! It's also so great that you are involved with their school. Your a good Mom Kristen!
wow...ok, so the part about you crying because your friend was crying actually almost got me crying!!!
jakob starts kindergarten next week...and even though last january thru june he was in an extended-kindergarten program (at a different school) i still feel like this is it. this is the REAL start of his elementary school career. so...I wonder, will I cry on that day?
and I totally love how you guys made cookies for "the brothers" - that is so cute! i bet they felt so loved when they came home to cookies!
I told Jakob if he puts his backpack out on the front porch the night before school starts, the back to school fairy will leave him a special school treat. this was an idea i found in some parenting magazine...and right now he is totally into drawing...so I was thinking of getting him some pencils and a sketch pad...because he hates notebook paper - "the lines get in the way!" :)
Looks like Alyssa is a blooming photographer
They are growing up! I am glad they had such a good time. I get nervous for them facing the world too, isn't that weird? I love those kids!
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